As Christmas approaches, the general pubic is trying desperately to determine what their loved ones need. We search and search for just the right thing and it brings us great joy when we feel like we have found what will bring a smile to the faces of those that we love so deeply.
My husband has been fretting. He wishes he could get me a “surprise”, not something that I picked out for myself. He feels badly that he can no longer do that for me. He doesn’t get it though. It’s not what is important to me.
What is important to me is the basics. What I want more than anything is genuine kindness, trust, and compassion. Our children are missing this in the public education setting because our focus is so grossly focused on standards and testing results. Many don’t possess the basic fundamental skills that don’t have anything to do with academia. It has to do with basic human characteristics that focus on basic human interactions: love, kindness, trust and faithfulness.
I want that. I want that for and from everyone I come in contact with. I just want to genuinely care for the people I come in contact with and for them to reciprocate my feelings.
So what do I want for Christmas? I just want people to be kind.